2012/08/28

Friendship

Friendship works like Operant Conditioning.
You'll be getting closer to each other when you have commons.
And inevitably, you'll be getting farther to each other when neither one of you has same personality.
Then, when time goes on and on without occurring stimulus, it leads this friendship to extinction.
Both of you will treat each person as stranger again.

This is human nature, the reality.
Why is it so hard for me to find a true friend in Canada?
I brazenly(and this is fact) say that I'm friendly and kind person, why I don't have had any friends yet?
Am I doing the wrong thing?
I don't drink alcohol and that's a good habit, isn't it?
I kinda not a clubbing person, this is a good habit, either, right?
Why?
I don't have any friends yet?

Summer break is going to end, and I haven't gotten any invitation to hang out with friends, even I've invited them lots of time, they just refuse me.

My friendship with these people are going to extinct, and it's time to cut the connection between us off, or else, it will be hurtful to each other and being a friend I don't want to hurt you.

I respect you, but you didn't return any respect to me.
You always talk to your friend in Japanese and make an excuses want me to leave you.
Whenever I talk in Chinese with someone, I will translate What I said to them to you CAUSE I RESPECT you.AND YOU'RE MY FRIEND.

Well, guess you're not going to return it.

I get it.


 

1 comment:

  1. 我明白你的feeling~
    但有些事情我們都注定無法掌控,
    或許這就叫作人生吧!
    我想起課堂上得有個教授講過:“人生不如意十之八九,一天裏究竟有多少事是如意的?一天究竟有多少事是不如意的?”
    別想太多咯!!我們都加油吧!

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